What is wrong with MEN??

Is it just me?? Or does someone calling at 11:30p wanting to meet seem a little odd to you. GP had called around 8p and we had a good conversation. We made plans to meet on Sat night. Then he calls at 11:30p and says he's at 51st & Yale and did I want to meet him? UHHHH!!!NO I DON'T. He said he had good intentions but his timing was off. I don't think I'm getting out of bed meeting a stranger at 11:30p.
When he called earlier he said he worked this weekend but he got off at 9p and we could go dancing. I could pick the place. I said ok at the time but now I've realized we need to go back to just meeting somewhere earlier before we go dancing. We need to see if we even like each other after we meet in person. Then we can talk about going dancing. Yeah, then we can talk about doing other things. Let's just meet first.
I have meet people after enjoying conversations on the phone and then realized when meeting that there was no connection or attraction. So it's best to just meet in well lighted, lots of people around for that first time.